What To Do When You Have No Friends

Our complete what to do when you have no friends guide. You only get one life stop wasting it away with shyness. Get a markable difference in your social life within 7 days. How crazy is that?

That number, aka the Dunbar Number, is 150. Were members of the primate family, Dunbar has explained, and within the primates there is a general relationship between the size of the brain and the size of the social group. We fit in a pattern. There are social circles beyond it and layers within but there is a natural grouping of 150. This is the number of people you can have a relationship with involving trust and obligation theres some personal history, not just names and faces.

Being a social butterfly isnt a requirement for getting through life without feeling alone not everyone needs to be popular with tons of friends and past relationships. That being said, having and maintaining friendships with others is really important for your growth and development in so many aspects of your life. Its great that youre very close to your sister, but you should have a friend you can rely on outside of your family. As for the relationship stuff? Sure, thats important too, but to be honest, Im more concerned about the friendship stuff right now.

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From The Guardian:

Ive been in a relationship for about half a decade now and sure, it does feel weird. In five years, Ive managed to cut off several of my friends and kept the ones that meant the world to me. I havent made giant strides, but I do feel different. Its because I know more and those Ive known before, I started knowing them much, much deeper. And when you start discovering these things about people, you can either hate em or love em even more. Most of the time, they just end up disappointing you, or you end up disappointing them.

Selena Gomez opened up about her struggles with mental health and the necessary culling of her social circles in a new interview with the Business of Fashion.
I asked them, ‘How did you get to this place? What were you like when you were 25? What were the things that you were thinking about?’ And from there, being with like-minded people. You are who you surround yourself with 100 percent,” she said of the necessary steps she took toward self-care.
And to detach from it. But it is lonely, I had to lose a lot of people in my life to get there.

You can also use social media to try and make some friends. Send them a private message or something like that. It sounds weird, and it might feel weird, but it can work. Does your sister have friends outside of you? If so, ask if you can hang out with them sometime. Make friends with her friends, or their friends if you can hang out in a big group. Another great place to meet friends is through a part-time job. I met so many of my closest friends from years of waitressing, and were still close even though we havent worked together in years.

It usually happens when we need someone to lean on or even when we want to share some good news. If you feel like you have no friends, there are things you can do. Join Local Groups If youve moved to a new area or your girlfriends moved away, join groups that match your interests. For example, you might join a book club or join a local group that betters the community. Just do something that connects you with people with whom you share an interest. Also, check out for groups like walkers, wine lovers, hobbies, etc.

Once someone has been socially lonely for a while there are some thinking patterns and behaviors they tend to slip into that make it harder for them to get out of their isolation. Not every one will affect every lonely person, but they show up often enough. They aren’t anyone’s fault. People’s minds just naturally, subtly slide in that direction under the circumstances. Fortunately, if you’re having these issues, once you’re aware of them you can change your situation by consciously acting in a different way.

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